A living notebook about identity, technology, relationships, and rebuilding a meaningful life in a world whose rules are quietly changing.
Reflections
Essays on identity, technology, relationships, and the quiet work of rebuilding a life.
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Why AI Boyfriends Exist (And What Theyโre Replacing)
AI boyfriend is a phrase that tends to attract two very different groups of readers: people who use AI companions, and people trying to understand why anyone would. At some point in…
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The Long Slope: Life After Divorce, Loss, and Learning to Start Over
At the beginning, I had finally found someone. Someone who chose me โ to be around, to talk to, to laugh with, to listen to music with, to drive with.At the beginning,…
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The End of Being Chosen: Rebuilding Your Life After Divorce and Loss
A personal essay on divorce, identity, and what happens when being chosen is no longer the center of your life โ and how to begin rebuilding after loss. When I was married,…
